I wonder ! A chip of the old bloke ! Could it be real for traumas too ?
" You behave just like your Dad "
I wonder ! A chip of the old bloke ! Could it be real for traumas too ?
Have you ever heard that you are just like someone else in certain regard ? Or perhaps you have noticed someone else acting just like their mom or dad , or even an uncle .
We are so unique and despite having same upbringing in a family we react differently to circumstances and situations . For instance , two children with alcoholic parents can be totally different . One follows the alcoholic steps , whereas the other child is more anti alcohol , refuses to be the same as parent ( s ) and creates a different life . It is rather interesting , and perhaps there are logical explanations .
Here is one …
Sometimes we come across emotions or behavior that feels like ” my aunt ”, or mother or father … What if that is because you are inheriting or carrying parts and emotions , sometimes even trauma from that particular person or heritage .
It has perhaps even helped you at one time , -to experience life and / or -be protected or -person recognize himself / herself in you and liked you more .
Those parts and emotions or even traumas can contain for example bedwetting , drinking , cruelty or anger , but also