I wonder! A chip of the old bloke! Could it be real for traumas too?
" You behave just like your Dad "
I wonder! A chip of the old bloke! Could it be real for traumas too?
Have you ever heard that you are just like someone else in certain regard? Or perhaps you have noticed someone else acting just like their mom or dad, or even an uncle.
We are so unique and despite having same upbringing in a family we react differently to circumstances and situations. For instance, two children with alcoholic parents can be totally different. One follows the alcoholic steps, whereas the other child is more anti alcohol, refuses to be the same as parent( s) and creates a different life. It is rather interesting, and perhaps there are logical explanations.
Here is one …
Sometimes we come across emotions or behavior that feels like” my aunt”, or mother or father … What if that is because you are inheriting or carrying parts and emotions, sometimes even trauma from that particular person or heritage.
It has perhaps even helped you at one time,-to experience life and / or-be protected or-person recognize himself / herself in you and liked you more.
Those parts and emotions or even traumas can contain for example bedwetting, drinking, cruelty or anger, but also