Healing and Hypnotherapy Special Mega Annual Issue 21 June 2017 | Page 29

Reincarnation Relationships and Soulmates

One theory about reincarnation holds that there is no such thing as a chance meeting . Every significant relationship has a deeper purpose for your soul ’ s continuing education .
The theory of soul-mates reveals that our souls travel through time in groups . A soul-mate is not always a member of opposite sex or a lover . It could be a friend , co-worker or family member . Members of the same soul group choose to reincarnate together to support each other through their journeys .
Now , when a student goes to a school , he is expected to graduate from one class and move into the next one to continue his education . Life is no different . The life itself is a school . We come to learn some important life lessons . We learn in contrast . If you ’ ve decided to incarnate this time to learn kindness and love . You will have to know pain and hatred first . We wouldn ’ t know what white is without comparing to black . How would you know what warm is without knowing what is cold ? Every person that walks into our life is a teacher . As surprising it may sound , your worst enemies , the people that caused you the most pain , are your best teachers . There is a chance that you have made an agreement with these people before reincarnating .
Think of all the people with whom you have or had an especially strong positive or negative relationship . Now , imagine that you have had a different relationship with these people in a past -life . If your spouse sometimes feels and act like your child , it is possible that he or she in fact was your child in previous life time . So , think about it : who would be uncovering your past -life memories would help understand these relationships better and improve them ! We tend to return into the same family . The roles may change every time though . One of my clients cringed after hypnosis session ; “ Whew , my husband used to be my son …” Another client teared up . “ We were always like this !” – she exclaimed showing her index and middle finger crossed . She had flushes of times when she and her mother were sisters , and another time she was a mother to her nowmom .
I ’ d like to you to recall now how you ’ ve met your true love . It was different from meeting any other object of desire . From the very first sight you just knew , this is the one ! And just after a few minutes if interaction , you get this feeling “ I know you ”. And when you look into his or hers eyes , they are so familiar , it feels like you are looking in your own reflection . The first kiss felt like “ coming home ” after a very long travel . The first hug felt like been finally found after been lost for so very long . And all of the sudden , you got flooded and so overwhelmed by rousing feelings of joy , love , happiness , and , at the same time , fear and pain of loss . And then you knew , this is not your first meeting . You have been together before . You have traveled through space and time , from one life-time to another , parting your ways and finding each other again . True love never ends .