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famiLyLaWProCeeDings:CHiLDren’saPPearanCeinCourt Marital & Family law Section Chair:­Katherine­Scott­-­Harris,­Hunt­&­Derr,­PA theCommittee recommendedthatthis criticaldecision-making authoritybevestedsolely I n 2018, The Florida Bar Family Law Rules Committee proposed an amendment to Fla. Fam L. R. P. 12.407, regarding attendance and testimony of children at depositions and family law proceedings. The change eliminated the provision which allowed a parent to, at their discretion, bring a child who was a witness, potential witness, or related to a family law case to the courthouse for a family law proceeding “in an emergency situation.” As amended, the rule allows a child to attend a deposition or family law proceeding only when a parent has obtained a prior order based on good cause shown. The rule change was intended to specifically make it more difficult for parents to take matters into their own hands and decide unilaterally there was an “emergency” that warranted the child’s attendance at a family court proceeding. Instead, the Committee recommended that this critical decision-making authority be vested solely in the presiding judge. The amendment is based on a growing acknowledgment of the damaging effect such entanglement with litigation has on a child’s welfare. Specifically, it has been inthepresidingjudge. found that conflict subjects a child to “a feeling of chronic stress, insecurity, and agitation; shame, self-blame, and guilt; a chronic sense of helplessness; fears for their own physical safety; a sense of rejection, neglect, unresponsiveness, and lack of interest in the child’s well-being.” 1 However, the new rule has introduced complications: more judges are strictly interpreting the showing of “good cause” required for an order permitting appearance and/or testimony of a child. Additionally, given the exigencies often surrounding instances in which child testimony is sought, lawyers and desperate parents have had to resort to extreme measures, including having children circle the courthouse or wait in nearby areas while motions regarding testimony are heard. Other parents feel compelled to simply ignore the rule. The limitations of the rule are critical to help preserve the innocence and emotional well-being of children; however, when strictly enforced, the rule may also make it more difficult for a parent to present evidence of a significant event to which the child is a witness, which may in turn negatively affect the child. The bar and bench should be attentive to the effect of this rule change and strive to find the appropriate balance between protecting children from involvement in litigation and allowing a parent to present prompt testimony regarding critical matters affecting their children’s welfare. Notably, the 2018 Committee Note accompanying the rule clarifies that children unconnected to litigation may be brought to the courthouse or a deposition for educational purposes or other, non-case related reasons. Lawyers and parents should be mindful of the intent of the rule and do what they can to protect children from unnecessary involvement in litigation. n Elizabeth Ellis, The Trowbridge Foundation, What Have We Learned from 30 Years of Research on Families in Divorce Conflict?, at 2, citing Elizabeth Ellis, Divorce Wars, Interventions with Families in Conflict (APA Books 2000). 1 Author: Cory Brandfon – Harris Hunt & Derr, P.A. Get InVOLVed! SIGn Up On YOUr MeMBer prOfILe At HILLSBAr.COM. 40 MAR - APR 2020 | HCBA LAWYER