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Harmony in Marriage
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for an hour, neither he nor she would endure even for an hour.
The fireworks of everyone’s prakruti are exploding.
Where did these fireworks come from?
Questioner : They are an inherent trait in everyone.
Dadashri : You might be convinced that today there is
going to be a big row, but instead it fizzles away. If your mind
keeps tormenting you by saying over and over again, “He said
so many things to me. So many horrible things happened
today,” then you should pat yourself on the back and tell
yourself to go to sleep and that everything will be all right.
Did your wounds not heal? Is everything not fine now?
Questioner : When the quarrelling takes place, is it not
the karmic baggage brought forward from the previous life that
is coming out?
Dadashri : When fighting takes place, new karmic
baggage is simultaneously being added for the next life. After
receiving this Gnan however, only the old karmic baggage of
the past life comes out. New baggage is not being filled.
Questioner : When my husband is quarrelling with me
and I am doing pratikraman, is that a problem?
Dadashri : There is no problem.
Questioner : Does the karmic baggage come out during
quarrelling?
Dadashri : Yes, all of it will come out. Wherever
pratikraman is done, the baggage is coming out. Pratikraman
is the only solution in this world.
What will you do from now on if your husband gets
angry?