Dear Grandma Wisdom
Grandma Wisdom is ready to answer your questions about anything and give you adive from her long years of experience and wisdom !
Dear Grandma wisdom,
I am a 33 year old woman, married with 2 kids. I have a good career, and a great husband. But my life seems to go by me, and at the end of the day, I find myself feeling empty and sad. Something feels missing, I don't know what it is, since I have everything every woman dreams of, and yet, I cannot seem to enjoy anything like how I should. I find myself rushing through everything I am doing, and I end up losing meaning for the things I do sometimes. What should I do, help me, Grandma Wisdom, please !
Hectic woman
My Beloved ,
It seems to me that you are missing the one engredient which every woman must add to her life, for without it, she could never truly feel happy, or make others happy. Time for herself !
when was the last time you took a break, arranged for someone to take care of the kids, and went to have a facial massage? or went out for a walk, all by yourself, or woke up at dawn to watch the sunrise, quietly?
These might seem very simple things, but they , my dear, hold the key to enjoyment. when a woman gets to experience pleasure, she can then take care of others and do a million things, and still feel energized, and most important she gets to leave behind a good memory of everything she did in a given day.
just stand still, breathe, smile, and then go on with each activity, and you will see that you are going to feel better about yourself, and about your life .
Dear Grandma Wisdom,
I never thought of talking about this with anyone, but the title grandma wisdom gave me the feeling that I can talk to you as an understanding grandmother. How am I supposed to forget my x husband? It;s been several years now, and I feel I still can't get over what he did to me. So many heart ache, and pain . why can't I move on with my life?
Longing
My Beloved,
It seems to me that you have some forgiving to do. How is a woman supposed to forgive? you simply give back the experiences to the other person. Hold no ties to it, they did not belong to you in the first place. You were merely a mirror, and that mirror was something to let the other person see clearly into his errors.
Now that you did your part, take no responsibility for the other person to change his ways.That is something that he needs to do, not you. Now that you no longer have that person in your life, make sure never to treat anyone the way you have been treated, for now you know how much that hurts, this way, you do your part in making the world a better place, not only yours .
Dear Grandma Wisdom,
what is the greatest advice you would give to a woman who is about to get married?
Engagned
Dear Beloved,
Hmm, let me see. From my experience, i believe the best advice I could give you would be:
Hold eachother for four minutes as you fall asleep,and four mintues right after you both wake up !
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Grandma Wisdom
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East Jerusalem. israel.
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