Know How and When to Talk to an Elderly Loved One When Living Alone is No Longer Safe.
SENIOR LIVING
The Independence Issue
Approaching an elderly loved one about the possibility that he or she can no longer live alone can be a difficult and delicate process, but key signs like forgetting medications, neglecting personal appearance and hygiene, and withdrawing from normal activities must be addressed in an honest, loving manner. by Joseph Weagley + photo by Chris Jackson
Know How and When to Talk to an Elderly Loved One When Living Alone is No Longer Safe.
Many senior citizens, living on their own, enjoy an excellent quality of life. Others, who may be in declining health, are determined to remain independent. When an elderly relative, friend or couple is in need of additional help, starting a conversation about a change to assisted living or nursing care can be difficult.
READING THE SIGNS Recognizing the key signs of aging, making plans and taking appropriate action can prevent a potentially dangerous situation from escalating. These signs can be physical, mental and emotional. The first sign can be a decreasing ability to perform the activities of daily living, or ADLs. Tiffany Rife, director of personal care services at Menno Haven retirement community in Chambersburg, Pa., suggests paying attention to your loved one’ s appearance.“ Is clothing changed less frequently or clothing soiled?” she asks.“ Also, are showers, tubs, and sinks dusty from lack of use?” A change in eating and drinking habits can result in poor nutrition and inadequate hydration. Often, the
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