5 tips for managing family expectations
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5 tips for managing family expectations
1 . Let family know what you can do and what your limitations are , as overstretching yourself and family can create conflict .
2 . It is important to keep perspective and acknowledge that Christmas can be a difficult time . Don ’ t expect to have it all together and that it will be perfect . Remember that having fun is better than perfection .
3 . Expect to be surprised by strange habits and the funny ways of other people rather than being shocked by them . A sense of humour can be a coping mechanism .
4 . Even if you don ’ t want to be there , make an effort to enjoy the day . Christmas only comes once a year .
5 . When invited to a Christmas gathering , find out if you can bring a plate of food to help the host .
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