Groove Magazine Zimbabwe Issue 2 | Page 25

of my comfort zone. I’m all about that, smashing stereotypes. GM.: “Amadoda”. Please share with us the meaning and concept behind this movement? Munashe: ‘Amadoda’ mean men in Zulu. Our vision is to create men of value. It all started when I and four friends met a lady who was begging and we were in a mall in Joburg and she looked at us and we were drawn to her. We asked her how she got into the circumstance she was in. She started explaining how she was abused by the male figures in her life. She was sexually abused by her father and forced into a marriage, and her only option was to run away and live on the streets. For her the streets were her only way of freedom. And it got us wondering as to what type of role models we have in our society. Not just in South Africa, but in the whole continent. We began asking ourselves what kind of man do I want to be? What role do I want to play? What legacy to I want to leave behind? Through our inquiry we discovered that there is such a disconnect in our society. Our culture tells us that men are supposed to be the providers of the family, men are supposed to be responsible, to be there for their children, for their wives; but in actual fact we find that there are men disbanding their role; and women having to fulfill that role most of the time. Our solution to this fracture in our society was to rally up young men, to re-define the role of a man and live up to it. We started our campaign on Facebook. We created the AmaDODA page and started asking people to tell us in 40 words why they have to be successful. We put it up and requested our followers to send a picture as well, which was necessary to emulate one of the pillars of Amadoda, accountability. The movement went viral and over a thousand people caught on to the movement. Young men from across South Africa were sending in their contribution to Amadoda, even a few CEOs and lecturers. We got 1500 likes. This spurred conversations about wanting to be successful and taking a stand on being there for the woman in their lives, to provide for them, like their mothers who had sacrificed for them and had put them through university. I was really moved by some of the responses. One of the followers said that he wanted to be successful for his mother who had given up her job to take care of him. We saw there was a unanimous desire of giving back. And that’s what we wanted to create in young men, create men of value. So from there we have been having conversations with people, like people in the media, on radio mostly. Amadoda allowed us to have a platform where we could engage people in dialogue and because it went viral, it helped attract the attention of the media, which gave us an even bigger platform to reach a wider audience. We have since been on Cape talk Radio, SA FM, we’ve been on the UCT Monday paper; we’ve been on all those platforms. It’s amazing that the response we have gotten has been mostly positive and everybody who resonates Groove Magazine Zimbabwe to Amadoda and recognizes that something needs to be done to change the current status quo of men. We need to change the perception of how men are portrayed in society. GM.: You are about ‘men of value”. What is your definition of a “MAN”? Munashe: I would like to start by saying that because each one of us has different experiences we all have a different definition. But for me, my definition of a man is a person that is responsible. By responsible I mean someone who knows their duties, firstly in their house and in their community. And exactly as I said, Amadoda resonates with the following values; responsible, accountable and useful. GM.: In your life, who are your role models? Munashe: In my life, I would have to say that it’ my father. I have been privileged to have a father in my life, who is there, who is supportive. When I moved to South Africa, I would have to say my pastor from church, who has been a helpful and supportive mentor. GM.: In media, or from popular figures, who are the men that are portrayed as good fathers/ male role models? What can young men take from them? Munashe: I will answer that differently. The media portrays different images of men. But there are so many people who do great things but are never given credit for it. Think about the guy who gets a girl pregnant that takes the 21