Ben: Very precariously (laughs).I’m self-employed as you
can see, so it is one of those things where you have to put
in the work. I don’t walk in, give instructions and walk
out. My work is hands on and I’m usually busy. I go
through periods when I’m so busy that I don’t have just
time to phone the boys to say “what sup!”. The way that
I’ve worked it out, is to find small things that we can do,
that we can all enjoy. There are times I say that we are
going to the movies, so we get 3D glasses and do that. I
have to make time to hang out with the boys. I have two
girls, one is eight years old, and the other is three years
old. They both know what they want so it’s easy. With
the three year-old, that