Green Child Magazine Holiday 2014 | Page 38

No Battery Gifts Play Up Your Child’s Imagination |by Amity Hook-Sopko Remember your favorite toy from childhood? It was most likely with you from sun up till sun down. You didn’t buy it at any toy store… it was free. And it’s what could turn an empty box into a dollhouse or a broom handle into a light saber. Where can you find this long-lost treasure? It’s still with you – if you take the time to encourage it… Your imagination – would your childhood have been the same without it? And do you ever feel like our children’s generation is really missing out on the simple, creative joys of life? 38 From the day your child is born, you’re bombarded with singing, blinking, interactive toys with slick marketing campaigns to convince you of the advantages of “starting education early.” I wasn’t immune to the claims. When our son was a few weeks old, we asked our birth doula her opinion of black and white toys for visual stimulation. She kindly told us, “He’s been in a dark, quiet place for nine months… the world itself is enough stimulation for him right now.” It’s amazing how a little perspective can add wisdom and common sense to your whole parenting mindset, isn’t it? Her response gave us the confidence in ourselves as parents to trust our own instincts rather than the commercials and magazine ads. It also gives us the strength to stand firm when our boys ask for the latest handheld video game or toys that walk, talk, and require no imagination on their part. Many parents don’t realize that no battery toys contribute to early childhood education. Wooden shape-sorters and kid-sized puzzles are a great way to boost critical thinking as well as problem-solving skills. They also foster a sense of satisfaction in doing things “all by myself,” as the independent toddler likes to announce. For kids with autism, battery-free toys encourage pretend play and can give them an edge with their social skills. Also, babies and children tend to play longer with a no battery toy as compared to one that does everything for them. Try this experiment with your child and see for yourself.