Green Child Magazine Fall 2013 | Page 16

Nutritional Nuggets Expert Louise Goldberg answers your questions! We’ve been reading more about how wheat has changed over the past decade or so, and how gluten intolerance is on the rise. Even though no one in our family has been diagnosed with Celiac Disease or a wheat intolerance, I notice we all tend to stay healthier when we limit wheat, gluten, and dairy. Our youngest daughter really loves bread, though. What’s a good way to wean her down and increase the amount of real food, especially veggies she eats? Regardless of food intolerances, it is important for kids to consume a variety of foods without overdoing or omitting one group. Whole grains provide essential nutrients for energy and growth, as well as fiber, so a serving is good to include at every meal. However, there are many healthy gluten free choices available. Quinoa, (gluten free) oats, amaranth, brown rice and millet are just a few great choices. Our son is three years old, and he loves tomatoes. He would eat them (or a tomato product) at every meal if we let him. I’ve heard that when you crave a certain food, that can mean you’re allergic to it. How cautious should we be of this? There is no scientific evidence to support a connection between cravings and food allergies. If he is not exhibiting any symptoms of a food allergy (e.g. hives, wheezing, swelling, coughing, blood in stool, etc.) it is most likely not an allergy. Children go through phases called “food jags” where they get hooked on a specific food 16 and want to eat that-and only that-for a while. It should diminish over time or change to a different food. As long as his tomato intake doesn’t completely displace eating other foods, he should be okay. My daughter just started 2nd grade and said that kids at school are calling her fat. I don’t think it is ok for them to do that but she is a couple pounds heavier than what is ideal (according to the pediatrician). At home she puffs out her stomach and asks me if I think she is fat. Should I be honest about her weight or let her believe she is fine the way she is? First, the issue of name calling at school must stop. Talk to her teacher and the principal to make them aware and to monitor the situation. They need to review with the class that teasing of any kind is not tolerated. Second, when she asks you if she is “fat,” she is looking for validation that her classmates were right so the message from you needs to be supportive, accepting, and loving, not in agreement with her peers. You can turn the question around and ask her, “What do you think?,” and “Why...” do you think that?” This can be the beginning of an ongoing dialogue with her about different body sizes and shapes and that being healthy is more than just what you look like. It’s about the food choices you make, being active, and feeling good about yourself. A pediatric dietitian can help guide you both through this conversation if you want additional help.