BRING THE ALOHA SPIRIT
You don ’ t have to include Hawaiian traditions in your ceremony , but it ’ s a lovely way to bring a local touch and a sense of connection to your celebration . Just remember , if you do so , be thoughtful about respecting the local culture and enquire about having a Hawaiian Wedding Officiate . They will have the knowledge , passed down through generations , to bring an authentic element into your day , honouring the Aloha spirit of love and life . Here are a few options :
• A memorable arrival One of the most popular wedding traditions is the blowing of the pu , a conch shell horn . This is done to call attention to an event of significance . It ' s often heard at the start of a ceremony , alerting guests that the wedding is about to begin .
• Beautiful blessings Ask about having your officiant bless your wedding rings using koa wood , ti leaf , and water . The koa bring integrity and strength , while the leaf is for good health and prosperity . The water brings it all together , symbolising the new beginning for you as a couple .
Leis ( or garlands , often floral ) are another heartfelt and meaningful gesture in Hawai ' i and are often given after you present the rings . You could also include a unity sand ceremony : pouring Hawaiian sands into a small glass vessel together . It has a similar meaning to a wedding candlelighting ceremony and makes a beautiful souvenir .
• Music & dance The sweet sound of a ukulele is synonymous with these Pacific isles . And if hula dancing spells Hawai ' i to you , consider including this ancient local tradition . For Hawaiians , the bride dances the hula for her groom , but resorts can also help you book a troupe of dancers to perform at your reception .
WHAT TO WEAR
Casual elegance is really all that ' s required for beach weddings in Hawai ' i . As the bride , you can keep it classic with a designer gown , or loosen up the dress code with a floaty boho beach dress . Just consider your footwear . High heels in sand ? Not a good time ! For your groom , a lightweight suit for a semi-formal wedding or a fun Hawaiian-styled shirt for a casual wedding is perfect .
If you ’ ve chosen a tropical garden or jungle location , you could go a little more formal , depending on your personal style . The weather in Hawai ' i is warm all year , making lighter , breathable fabrics a smart option . Be sure to communicate this to your guests in advance so everyone is comfortable on the day .
• Food & drink If you ’ re marrying at a resort , the wedding team will be able to suggest a range of delicious traditional dishes and locally sourced menu items . Think sesame-crusted ahi tuna , macadamia-crusted mahi-mahi , healthy poké bowls , and tropical fruits . You can also choose to have a traditional luau with a kalua pig and all the trimmings . The unique Polynesian flavours are sure to be a hit with your guests !
Serving cocktails ? You can ' t go past a tropical Pina Colada , festive Mai Tai , and a cool Blue Hawaiian with a wedge of juicy pineapple or mango for your menu . Kona coffee is another local favourite , perfect for the morning-after .
• Guest gifts Don ' t forget a parting gift for your loved ones . Hawaiians also observe this custom . Look for Hawaiian-made options including macadamia nuts , local coffee , or even customised cookies from one of the well-known bakeries . Though honestly , the chance to experience a destination wedding in Hawai ' i is what will have your guests rushing to RSVP .
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