The wedding day arrived and I set off for the venue, planning to arrive about one hour early so that I could relax into the environment and feel properly prepared. However, an unexpected road closure and substantial detour left me racing to get to the castle in time. Arriving with fifteen minutes to spare left me feeling flustered rather than the relaxed state I intended. I know now to check the travel news early in the morning, prior to travelling!
Of course, I was not alone in feeling a little stressed. There were also a few challenges for the bride and groom on the day and I quickly realised that, as the Minister, I had an extended role to play in exerting a calming influence on those around me, even though I myself felt nervous. Looking out at the expectant guests in all their finery and the couple standing in anticipation in front of me, I found myself praying for calm and courage.
We began the service and before I knew it, we were signing the register (with black indelible ink). For me, the ceremony passed in a blur as my training and preparation kicked in and we flowed comfortably through our order of service. Thankfully, the couple loved their service and many of the guests came to thank me for what they thought was a beautiful and personal ceremony. I had completed my first wedding ceremony. It was a great success and I felt honoured to be entrusted with such an important responsibility.
There was, however, one final learning point for me. We had previously agreed that the outstanding payment would be settled two weeks before the wedding but this did not happen. I find the financial aspect of the relationship a bit of a challenge and eventually I had to submit an invoice before I finally received payment. I understand that I must learn to value my role as a professional who is delivering a service. My education continues…