Grace Point! May 2015 | Page 18

Special Guest Article: Forgiveness by Grace Gayle Unforgiveness is a major cause of depression. It eats at your soul like a cancer, burrowing you deeper into depression. When we don’t choose to forgive, all our other relationships will be contaminated by our bitterness, and we will inevitably hurt those we love most. When we choose to forgive, we are opening the door to allow God to change us as an individual. Forgiving our offender is giving up our right to demand retribution. By forgiving the one who hurt me, I am not saying what he did was okay. Nor am I saying I am over the emotional pain. Forgiveness simply means I am willing to live with the consequences of his sin against me. I let him off my hook, but he is still answerable to God. Forgiveness is a major and necessary step to healing. Forgiveness sets us free to move through the healing process and continue to grow as a person. Forgiveness is the key to healing for all emotional wounds. www.healingourbrokenness.com www.fromvictimtovictor.ca www.gracegayle.ca www.depressionhurts.net 18 Author- “From Victim To Victor”, Founder- “Healing Our Brokenness Ministries” Speaker- on the healing journey Creator- of workshops and Bible studies for wounded hearts Grace lives with her husband, Paul McMullen, in Brighton, ON.