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LOVE
Love is an emotion of a strong affection and personal attachment. Love is also a virtue representing all of human kindness, compassion, and affection.
Love is expressed as an action and experienced as a feeling. Yet, love has an essence that resists defining in any single way.
Love encompasses compassion, tolerance, endurance, support, faith, determination and more. Love reaches beyond romance and embraces us in all walks of life as we encounter one another and make choices about respecting and caring for each other.
The question of how you should love is really only a question that you can answer, from deep within your own heart and from your own thoughts on the matter. Just remember that everyone that says they love you does not understand fully what love is and this is how we encounter negative love.
I LOVED HIM
Invested time
A gal in South Carolina
I am sure that many can understand what I am about to say as well as been on the journey I just walked. It seemed like it was a season of infinity when I say I invested time but received no cigar. I just want to share that I saw all the warning signs of no check in the mail but still stood by the mailbox waiting for the mailman to run. I saw the clouds roll in,
the lightning strike as well as heard the thunder sound but still did not think taking shelter was needed; so I got rained on. I wanted to blame the world for me being wet but no one kept me in the rain but me. It seems like the stock was high one minute low in another but even though I saw the drop I still did not think to pull my time away. It is amazing what you allow when you say I love him[laughing ] its just amazing to look back and see all the time wasted on an investment that I knew clearly was not going to pay out. Unhealthy relationships is like playing the lotto purchasing tickets for years never seeing Ed McMann with a check at your door and it is like driving in traffic the wrong way; just looking for the accident to happen.
Believe me I am not down on love rather down on the fact I dedicated so much time to the perception of love. You know that shadow that you named love and even though it followed you where ever you went [laughing] you never gave it the name it deserved; stalker. I have learned that when one truly loves you they actually can trust you, they do not become jealous of you and do not hover over you. I understand now that smacks are not love taps, foul language is no way to describe how you feel, and isolation is not the first step of foreplay.
Ladies take it from me if any of this is ringing a bell that bell you hear is the fog horn that is put in place to warn you danger is lurking and your investment is not going to pay out. That your time given will not be rewarded and the shackles you feel on your ankles is not just your imagination.