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Walsh Elementary, Cricket became Home and School Club President and served on the School Site Council. She got to know the school’s Principal, Arlene Machado, and they have remained close friends ever since. “Cricket is a volunteer extraordinaire,” Arlene said. “She offers help without even being asked. It’s disarming because people don’t expect it and they can tell she’s genuine. As a leader, she’s had enough life experiences and knows what matters. She doesn’t sweat the small stuff.” When Mike’s program with the Live Oak Emerald Regime Band began to grow he needed help. Knowing Cricket’s drum and bugle background, he asked her. She devoted the next 27 years as Mike’s Assistant Director and the color guard coach. Arlene helped Cricket make costumes and flags for the color guard. “They had to stand out, yet be classy, to get the judges’ attention,” Arlene said. “Cricket always had a sense of what would work.” “We were the only band in the region with a drum corps style and our choice of music was important,” Cricket said. “Our traditional exit number was ‘My Way’ and it never failed to get a standing ovation. “Mike could bring out the talent in every student. One day he said, ‘Let’s go to China. I want ours to be the first band to march on the Great Wall.’ He made it happen.” At its height, the band and color guard included more than 140 students and captured a national championship. “They grew up as one big family, including both of our own kids. Some of them still take us out for lunch on our birthdays and send us Christmas cards.” Even the Rubino’s house has a connection to the band. “We bought it from a band booster. We loved the neighborhood and could actually see the football field from the house. If we left the football field lights on, we knew it!” In 1995, Cricket read a magazine article about starting a home-based business and loved the idea. She launched Claremont Executive Services and for the next 17 years, provided outsourced administrative services. She participated in the Leadership Morgan Hill program in 1999. After graduating, she worked as a Program Coordinator for the organization for more than a decade, then joined the Board of Directors, and served as President. Cricket also served as a board member and former President of the Mt. Madonna YMCA (2002-15). She credited Susan Fent for her vision and ability to bring people together to develop Morgan Hill’s senior center. When the recession hit in 2007-08, the city’s senior center budget was cut by $30,000. “John Tarvin and I were on the Senior Advisory Committee,” Cricket said. “We held an e-waste recycling event, a quilt raffle, and a dinner dance and raised an amount close to what was cut from the budget.” Knowing they couldn’t maintain that level of effort year after year, they decided to launch the Friends of the Morgan Hill Senior Center under the Morgan Hill Community Foundation. The city rented them space to try a new idea: Tuesday night bingo. “Over time it did so well that we were making rent, donating to the Y, and funding an endowment with the Silicon Valley Community Foundation. In 2018 we formed our own 501c3 nonprofit. We want to ensure the Senior Center will remain operational even if another downturn comes along.” Cricket currently serves on the Board of Managers for the Mt. Madonna YMCA, and is Funding Chair of the Friends of the Morgan Hill Senior Center. Her community recognition includes YMCA Volunteer of the Year (2003), the Gavilan College Spirit Award (2011), and Morgan Hill Woman of the Year (2013). Today, Cricket and Mike are carving out more time to spend with their grand- children: Leah, 4; and Lauren, 2. “Cricket is always there for our family,” Mike said. “As a mother and a grandmother, she’s loving, patient and nurturing.” According to Mike Jr., “My kids know GILROY • MORGAN HILL • SAN MARTIN WINTER 2020 their Grammy is fun-loving and always thinking of them. Even when she’s traveling on vacation she brings some- thing back.” Every Labor Day, the extended family gathers in Aptos. “We do something different every year—pulled pork sandwiches, fried chicken, burgers and dogs, tacos,” Cricket said. “It’s great just to walk the beach together. “Mike and I are now traveling together and loving it. We’ve been to the Baltic States, Antarctica, China, Thailand, Vietnam, Australia. In December we’re looking forward to visiting France and Spain. It’s clear that Cricket’s kids adore her. “Looking back, she always had time for us,” Brandi said. “Every year she made our Halloween costumes. I’m talk- ing head-to-toe costumes, life-sized ice cream cone, Egyptian princess, space- man. So elaborate you would’ve thought she bought them. Who knows how she had time for that?!  “When I had a tough co-worker to deal with, mom helped me keep my head on straight to work my way through it. She taught me never to burn any bridges and I live my life by that rule.” According to Mike Jr., “Mom support- ed whatever I wanted to do during my school years. If I had a school project, she inspired me to go above and beyond. To see things through and take pride in my work.” It’s always fun to discover that hidden talent a person has. According to Arlene, “Cricket can tap dance. We took lessons from Wanda Marshal and all I can say is, Cricket was way out of my league!” Arlene also described Cricket as a kind and loyal friend. “We know each other’s families and we attend each other’s family events. When my mom passed away, Cricket did the flowers for the memorial service. We’re there for each other.” “If I can become half the woman she is,” Brandi said, “I will feel greatly accomplished.” Mike Jr. added, “The ability to consid- er others before oneself is a rare trait, and my mom definitely has it.” gmhtoday.com 101