RELATIONSHIPS
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Traits men look out for when searching for a wife.
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elieve it or not women aren't the only ones that nurse a list of traits they look out for in their ideal partner. Men
also have a mental list what the traits they would want their wife to poses and until they see this traits, trust me
they are not going on one knee. Are you ready for that ring?
Here are few of those traits men look out for when choosing a wife.
* Secure and confident - Men want women who are with them willingly and not out of desperation. Women
crave attention and adoration the same way men do, but men need their partners to have separate identity. They
appreciate it if their women have their own friends and trust them to have theirs too.
* Honest communicators – This is a top traits men tend to look out for, they appreciate women who answers
questions honestly, and they love women who are open and volunteer information. They want a woman who
can see the truth, stand and speak for themselves.
* Emotionally stable and mature – Men want woman who are emotionally stable but does not emotions all
together. It's important to know how to manage your emotions responsibly. Men are practical beings compared
to women who base their decisions on emotions.
* Manipulation free – Men have little or zero tolerance for games. They don't have time to read their partners
mind or try to interpret signals. Women have a thing for hiding their true emotions, pretending not to be
interested. News flash men don't have time to chase over a woman who has given the not- intrusted signal.
* True Commitment – Fidelity and loyalty is an absolute must for men. In fact, men want a woman, who doesn't
have a roaming eye. They want women who can be totally committed to the relationship. Though there is a
misconception that all a man wants is sex, the truth is, men also want to be loved. They won't just go running
after the pretty face and hot body, they can be faithful and committed too. But then, you need to be at an alert of
subtle cues and know if he is a catch or if you should throw him back with the fishes.
* Nurturer’s – This is one of the many reasons most men get attached to their mothers, they love to be nurtured
and appreciated as well.
Thoughts
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keeping you single
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here is a natural desire in very human being to express love, so not wanting to remain single is only natural.
Now, the irony is, in as much as we want to be loved and be loved we fear it. Most single men and woman don't
enjoy dating because they are scared of getting hurt. You must have faced rejection, desperation, loneliness,
painful insecurities and embarrassment in the past and the thought of living those nightmares all over again keeps you
single. The one question in the hearts of many single men/women out there is “How do I stop being single”? But the
truth is, if you want to get out of singlehood and find a meaningful relationship or even get married, then you have to
shift your mentality from fear based to results based. Instead of focusing on what you're afraid of happening to what
you will want to happen. This also means getting rid of excuses and focusing on solutions. It's time to stop letting these
common negative thoughts dominate your mind.
I won't find love; relax! You don't need to find love, it will find you. The key is to be open to the idea that it exist. You
have to be optimistic that with the right attitude accompanied with the right action, you will attract love. It's time to get
out and socialize more.
31 Glance Magazine