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ometimes, unpleasant disciplinary actions must be handed down. "First,
feelings; then discipline," is a highly effective approach that begins with a
positive statement that acknowledges the child's feelings (right or wrong) and
then explains your reason for setting the disciplinary consequences. This can
help reduce the levels of resentment following the action.
O
ne of the most important tips for all parents to remember is patience.
Children are very illogical depending on the phase of development and this
can be really difcult for many parents to deal with. Sometimes, they will
have a tantrum for no real reason and you will have to nd a way to just ride it
out.
I
n the years to come you will look back on your early days of parenthood
and laugh at the mistakes and fears. In the interim each day with your child
is a blessing and a joy. Cherish them and know that you are not alone in the
concerns that you face but will always nd support so that you do not have to
face them alone.
Dr.Norman Mike M