Giving Back Magazine February 2020 | Page 62

Education CULTIVATING PURPOSE IN GIRLS THROUGH MENTORSHIP I B Y B R I D GET T E OU IMET T E, A S S OCIAT E D I R ECTOR OF STR ATEGI C I NI TI ATI VES, ACADEMY OF OUR LADY OF PE A C E n the last 10 years, I have noticed a major shift in the culture of secondary education, as driven by the college admissions process. This shift is not unique to the United States and can be felt throughout the world in an increasingly competitive global economy and given the demands of ever-increasing technological innovation. Research suggests that the idea that every choice may impact college admissions and career trajectory is felt as early as eighth grade. This sense of pressure is evident in the day-to- day life of a school and is experienced by students, teachers, administrators and parents alike. This phenomenon is, arguably, even more uniquely experienced by adolescent girls. As we close January’s National Mentorship Month, this conversation is particularly relevant. Research tells us that developing a sense of purpose can help combat anxiety. One way that we can help youth develop their sense of purpose is through the promotion of growth-fostering mentoring relationships. The benefits of mentoring relationships for adolescents are vast - providing the acceptance, inspiration and support needed to resist the pressure to be successful per extrinsic measures and to engage instead in a purpose that is more personally meaningful. 62 GBSAN.COM | FEBRUARY 2020 The 2020 OLPWS Keynote Speaker is Haben Girma, a disability rights advocate and the first deafblind graduate of Harvard Law School.