GirlGI | Girl Gone International GirlGI Issue 5 | Page 12

Trail-Blazing Spouse! How to Make the Most Out of Following Your Partner Abroad By Macrui Dostourian It is a truth universally acknowledged that one half of a couple in possession of a job abroad must think about his or her partner. As work opportunities in today’s global village takes employees and adventure-seekers further and further away from their own countries the trailing spouse’s, or rather the supportive spouse’s, happiness is key to the success of a stint abroad. The first few months of a move abroad are filled with activities: both partners are excited to explore their new home, one partner is adapting to a new workplace and culture and the ‘trailing spouse’ is busy setting up a home. Once the settling period is over, however, the ‘trailing spouse’ may start to wonder where he or she fits into the family’s new life. With limited work possibilities, cultural and language barriers and the inevitable homesickness, it is no wonder that trailing partners can feel alone even in the busiest cities of the world. Here are some tips to thrive when following a loved one abroad.