Mixing it up with Montana!
With the Holiday season here, I’m sure you
wish you could celebrate it with someone
special and someone new. I wished for years
that I could have a mistletoe kiss or someone to
spend Christmas with, but I’m happy I didn’t
for those years. I am now in a wonderful
relationship and I’ve realized that all of those years
wishing were wasted.
I didn’t get my first kiss until just this past
summer, with my current boyfriend and I couldn’t
be happier that I saved, something even as simple as
my first kiss, for him. Of course, I’m hopeful that
this year I will have my mistletoe kiss, but that’s
because I love him and I love where we are.
Boyfriends may come and go and you may have
good and bad memories of your time with them, but
the holidays are for family, no matter how
dysfunctional they are. I am, unfortunately, away
from my family for this holiday, but I am cherishing
every holiday I was fortunate to spend with them,
even being 1,700 miles away.
As much society, pushes for perfect Christmas
relationships, they are only perfect when the two
accept both themselves individually and don’t fall
under the pressure from society. My boyfriend is one
of those guys that does not think romantically at all,
which can be annoying to me, since I’m the the
hopeless romantic, but at the same time, everything
we do, we do on our own terms and we’re happy we
The holidays are a time
to be grateful for what
you have and look
forward to a new year
aren’t bound by the confines of society. We’re happy
with our situation and where we’re headed.
Don’t spend the wonder