BE CAREFUL...DON'T DATE DESTRUCTIVE PEOPLE.
Some people want to experience love so badly they end up getting involved with the wrong people. They get into relationships with people who are known to cheat or manipulate, but they are willing to put up with it all in exchange for that feeling of "love." But some relationships are simply not worth the drama and the pain. Getting involved in a relationship that you already know isn't right sets you up for heartache and a messy break-up. Ask yourself these questions with regularity:
- Am I being respected in this relationship?
- Do they see value in me beyond the physical?
- Is my opinion appreciated and considered?
- Are my feelings considered?
- Is this a relationship that I would like to be in for the rest of my life?
If you answer “no” to any of these questions, it's time to do one of two things. Either address the concern with your significant other and resolve it to your satisfaction, or strongly consider moving on. If the answers to these questions are not “yes,” then they will most likely continue to remain “no." You are valuable. You are important. You deserve to be treated respectfully and considerately.
Don’t settle for less.
SHARING morals or spiritual beliefs is important.
Know what you believe, and know what your significant other believes. Talk about your values often so you can make sure your relationship aligns with who you are. There are no deeper thoughts or values than those that come from our spiritual being. What we believe spiritually will tell us a lot about our values, how we look at our world, and what we want out of life. Make sure you are on the same page about faith and values before you get too deep into your relationship. Trying to build a life with someone who does not share any of your values will eventually make your relationship feel like Sisyphus enternally pushing a boulder uphill-a punishment instead of a joy.