Don’t overanalyze.
Some people (and this maybe you) are big time dwellers. They spend hours analyzing every last detail about the relationship. They dwell on the situation, constantly replaying it in their minds, analyzing what happened, when it happened, why it happened, and what could have been done to keep it from happening. Continued overanalysis of a broken relationship steals valuable time away from your actual healing and leads to confusion and depression. Once you’ve thought through what went wrong with the relationship and what was good about it, let it go.
You have weathered the storm, made steps to be strong, learned a lot of lessons, avoided a lot of pitfalls, and know there’s a big world out there waiting for you.
You are an overcomer!