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BEFORE YOU TEXT
Depending on how badly your relationship ended and what kind of re-
lationship it was, you and your ex might be:
• Not speaking at all
• Seeing each other socially in a friendly way
• Speaking and seeing each other only when you have to deal with
the kids
• Hanging out all the time but not being romantic
• Still madly in love but not willing to make it work
• Some combination of the above
You need a “Shift Point” which would give you the chance to convert
your relationship from where it is now one step closer to your “Big Goal.”
Don’t be too ambitious here, but define one small thing that you want
in the near term. Your “Shift Point” can be pretty damn small at this
point.
Write down your “Shift Point” to start things in the right direction.
For instance, I’ve worked with people who say things like:
• I want my ex to be able to have one conversation with me where
neither one of us gets angry.
• I want to have lunch with my ex so we can look each other eye to
eye.
• I want to make love to my ex again as quickly as possible because I
know she’ll feel that bond again when we do.
Whew! OK, now go on to the next page. We’ve got a LITTLE BIT more
prep work to do.
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