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I talk about this in the video you (hopefully) watched before grabbing this report, but the
fact of the matter is most men are absolutely ADDICTED to their cell phones. (If youʼve
ever tried to have a serious conversation at the dinner table while youʼre man is surfing
the web on his phone, you already know this.)
Rather than trying to force him to pay attention to you and “put the damn phone down,”
texting lets you do a little bit of “relationship judo” and get him to do what you REALLY
want him to do without ever coming across as nagging or unreasonable at all.
BIG CONCEPT NUMBER 2: Guys Respond to VISUAL stimuli. Guys are NOT as
emotionally complex as women and are a lot more blunt in their communication.
This is REALLY important. As we go forward (and Iʼm hoping this is the start of a really
long friendship between you and I) Iʼm going to push you out of your comfort zone with
what I tell you to send to your man.
One of the most common conversations I have with my female friends and clients is
about how SIMPLE guys actually are. Women are such hyper-communicators and are
(typically) so in tune with their emotions that they think guys have to be that way too.
But, honestly, guys are simple. We have simple needs and, when it comes to emotions
and romance, we have pretty simple wants and desires too. If you try to talk to your man
like you talk to another woman heʼs going to clam up like the hoover dam.
Iʼll go into a lot more depth on this subject in some of the emails I send you, but for now
just remember two things:
1. Donʼt read too deeply into what your man says.
2. If you want your guy to give you the romance and attention you crave, youʼve got to
speak his language first. For our purposes, that means using VISUAL language in our
texts.
BIG CONCEPT NUMBER 3: A Manʼs Greatest Pleasure Comes From The Ability To
Give A Woman Pleasure and to be Appreciated for it.
This oneʼs a little complicated, but the short version is that men get incredible amounts
of pleasure and self esteem out of their ability to make WOMEN feel good and to be
appreciated for it. Very little of a guyʼs pleasure actually comes from physical sensation
or (generally) even from emotional connection.
BIG CONCEPT NUMBER 4: Romantically, Your Man Needs To Feel Like Heʼs
“Winning” You And Feel Like Heʼs In Charge
And our final big concept is that, romantically your man really does need to feel like heʼs
in charge. Not to get too much into evolutionary psychology here, but men are designed
to be hunters.
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