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Confidence
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a woman, there’s no problem with
...buying a girl a drink just to get her
treating her to a drink or two, but
buying a girl a drink just to get her
attention subconsciously says ‘I’m not
attention subconsciously says “I’m
important enough or attractive enough for
not important enough or attractive
enough for you to hang out with,
you to hang out with, so I’m going to give
so I’m going to give you this drink
you this drink in hopes that it will bribe
in hopes that it will bribe you to
stay here and hang out with me
you to stay here and hang out
because you’ll feel guilty leaving.”
Why would any guy want to be with
with me because you’ll feel
a girl who’s hanging out with him
guilty leaving.’
because she feels like she owes him?
Spending time with someone should
be enjoyable, not an obligation! This is a truly terrible
way to begin an interaction – the man will appear to lack
any semblance of confidence, and attraction will be killed
immediately. No woman wants a man who is needy and
allows his life to be controlled by his fears.
A Seven exhibits what is called combative dynamics. Those
who display combative dynamics don’t feel as valuable as
other people in the room and choose to try to decrease the
value of everyone else rather than raise their own value.
Sevens are insulting, aggressive, and loud. They are typically
some of the most frustrating people to deal with in social
situations because they tend to be difficult to control.
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