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Confidence Submit - Finally, when you’ve gotten enough sufficient feedback and enough people agree with your belief, you’ll finally accept that belief as FACT. From then on you’ll need a VERY large amount of evidence and convincing otherwise before you’ll reconsider the validity of that new belief. So my first test of this system had me convincing myself that I was very attractive by refusing to focus on anything that was contrary to that belief system. If I ever encountered something that was not in line with that belief – if someone thought that I was unattractive, for example, or if I was feeling week or undesirable – I had to believe that that situation was simply an exception to the rule or the truth: that I was fucking hot! The next stage was to see if I could convince other people that I was attractive. One day – I remember this very clearly – I was chatting with a female friend of mine (not a girl I was dating – I had a lot of trouble getting out of the friend zone back then), and for some reason something I said came across as slightly arrogant. I had never acted that way before and so the girl stopped and said “You know, you think you’re hot shit, don’t you?” I paused for a second, and then said “Yeah, well…I am!” TheTaoOfBadass 33