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Gender Roles
to the male gender role, a man is meant to be a provider-
protector. It is the man’s responsibility to hunt and gather
in order to find food for his family, and it is also his duty
to provide protection for them. The man must be large,
dominant, and powerful in order to achieve this.
Women, according to the conventional idea of the female
gender role, are nurturers. Their most important objective
is to give birth and care for their young until they are old
enough to survive on their own.
Even though those are very simple descriptions of very
complex topics, you can already see that ideas about the
gender binary have changed a great deal. How many women
do you see that are attractive that have no sign of wanting to
have kids at the moment? Probably several! And how many
guys do you know that are skinny, even frail looking, and yet
are still successful with women?
Think of the “reckless rockstar” archetype. Those kind of men
are often physically unappealing, are unreliable partners,
and are unlikely to provide and protect adequately, but are
still considered attractive by millions of women. Why? What
allows that attraction to happen? What has changed that
makes it acceptable when it once would not have been?
This answer is society. Society, and the rules imposed by
it, has altered the ideas about what it really means to be a
provider-protector and what it really means to be a nurturer.
Now, in order to fulfill the male gender role, a man must be
a social provider and a social protector. It has nothing to do
with hunting for food and defending your family from attack.
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