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Losing Control
During a panic attack, some people are prone to believe they are going to "lose
control." This loss of control can be bodily, i.e., that all your vital organs will
completely lose the run of themselves and descend into chaos, or that the
individual will mentally lose a grip on reality. Often, it is those who hate being
socially embarrassed suffer from this fear the most.
Losing control could range from steering your car into an innocent passerby, or
picking up a knife and killing the nearest and dearest person to you (not that we
all don’t think of this from time to time!).
Put your mind at rest! As scary as those thoughts may be, you are not going to
commit any of these acts. Relax. The reason you are experiencing them is
because your body feels out of control. Your mind feels that if your body is out
of control, it is next on the list.
You are not going to lose it. In fact, I am sure that with all the panic attacks you
may have experienced in public places, nobody even noticed you looked
uncomfortable. We are, by nature, social animals and dread to be seen in some
kind of an embarrassing situation. Jumping up from your chair in a business
meeting and screaming for an ambulance may go through your mind, but it is
unlikely to happen. In the end, even if we do embarrass ourselves socially, does
it really matter? We have to learn to be kind to ourselves. So what if we were to
cause a scene and great embarrassment? Life is too short to keep up with
appearances all the time. In fact, the more honest you are with your fears, the
less pressure you are subjecting yourself under.
Passing Out in Public
The core fear of passing out in public is that we suddenly become so vulnerable,
especially if we are alone. Who will look after us as we lie strewn across the
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