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Generation Gap 49 their daughters enter the house and dismiss them from outside. These are strange times, full of anguish and suffering. Besides, this is Kaliyug. So you should explain things to them in a calm manner. (P.255) Questioner : If someone were to be suspicious about us, how should we deal with it? Dadashri : You should dismiss your thoughts that he has suspicions about you. You should get it out of your mind. Questioner : Should we ask him why he has these suspicions? Dadashri : It does not do any good to ask that person. You should not ask. You should immediately realize that there must be some error on your part. Why should anyone have any suspicions about you? (P.256) The fault is of the sufferer. If you apply this sentence, it will solve all your problems. Who is the one suffering? Is it the person who doubts or is it the person who is being doubted? Just ask yourself this. (P.257) HOW MUCH INHERITANCE FOR YOUR CHILDREN? Questioner : What happens when because of our merit karma, we get more money than we need? Dadashri : You should spend it well and not keep too much aside for your children. Once you fulfill your duty to educate them and give them a good upbringing and when they are well established, you need not give them financial support. Just remember that only your merit karma comes with you in the next life. Only money that is spent for anyone other than your blood relatives will bind merit karma. (P.259)