Game Changers: The Conscious Culture Volume 1 Issue 6 | Page 15

Manhandled: Hidden Code Words That Impact Men
and The People That Love Them
by: Dr. Oliver T. Reid “Your Solution Coach”, international life, ministry and relationship coach,
motivational speaker and multi-bestselling author.www.iamasolutionconsultingllc.com
Many often ask who is
Dr. Oliver T. Reid and the
method behind his work
as a motivational speaker
and life coach. Some refer
to me as” Your Solution
Coach. I simply say, that I
am a man that has dis-
covered the answers to
my problems I’ve faced
the hard way. See I’ve
learned that everything in
my life is and was made of
words. Every relationship
I encountered were deeply
embedded or rooted in
word exchange. My latest
book Manhandled: Hidden
Code Words That Impact
Men and The People That
Love Them, delves into
the fact there every man
on earth has a set of codes.
This book was written
with women in mind. It
is an in-depth look into
how certain words we
hear from our childhood
as men influence how we
relate to the people around
us.
Let’s address the Real
Issues. Let’s Crack the
Man-Code!
Yes. I focused on the
reality and some of my
research was to see why
most men will say what
they don’t feel and feel
what they don’t say.
From when we’re kids,
we're taught as men to
sometimes suppress our
feelings. When you fall,
they say, “Hey, suck it up!
Get up! Be tough! Don’t
cry!” It’s embedded into
our social DNA, how to
act and our etiquette even
from childhood. And so,
you find that man twenty
years later, engaged in
relationships, suppressing
his feelings. I realized
that those behaviors come
from words. So basically,
words carry codes that
embed or impute certain
things and can trigger up
some on-and-off behav-
iors.
Which kind of code words
did I look at, how did I
come with them, and how
do they work?
Code words always ran
ramped in my communi-
cation and set up a broken
stage that