Game Changers: The Conscious Culture Men With Vision 2020 Edition | Page 15

DATING & RELATIONSHIPS
DATING A
MAN WITH
VISION
Date men with Vision, Passion, and Purpose.
Dig deeper, and figure out where he is going
and where he will be taking you.
Curated by Lydia Pierre
A Man With Vision is a value-
creating factory, self-sustaining man
who makes all the value he needs
from the inside out. He is also
considered a High-Value Man. So
what is a high value man?
A high-value man is secure in who
he is and doesn’t feel the need to
compete. He’s happy for you and
doesn’t compare his career to yours.
He’s also not trying to be the boss
of you, nor is he fighting against you
for control in the relationship. He’s
self-confident enough to be happy
on his own and doesn’t define his
own success by the relationship. He
just enjoys being with you.
He not only has money, he wants to
provide for you. It’s not so much
that a guy is “rich” that should
matter to a woman. A man providing
for his woman is not just about
money. There are many ways in
which a man can provide for his
partner, emotionally, spiritually, and
intellectually. High-value men are
actually very attracted to
independent women. He likes a
partner who has similar traits to
himself.
Ideally, both partners should be
independent before getting together,
so that the relationship remains
balanced and one partner doesn’t
depend on the other to survive.
Successful men are not looking for a
“damsel in distress” they have to
save.
On the contrary, men who are
insecure will actually look for women
that seem helpless so that they’ll
have a more controlling relationship.
Or worse yet, they’ll try to make you
helpless by creating situation where
you are dependent on them. This is
where financial abuse may come
into play. That’s why it’s always best
for you to be busy, find a career, and
be happy in your independence
before settling down.
High-value men are well adjusted in
life and in mental health. They know
they’re one of the good ones and so
they don’t play well when a partner is
constantly complaining, or blaming
them for something that’s not their
fault, or rehashing old problems that
are in the past. He’s the type of guy
who will either walk away from an
intense argument or he’ll just flat
out tell you that you’re being
unreasonable. He stands up for
himself but only when you start the
attack. This is the sign of a true
“alpha” and yet sensible man. A man
who has nothing to prove but
doesn’t needlessly suffer.
A high value man listens to you fully
and he thinks before he speaks,
always treating you with respect. He
doesn’t make promises he can’t
keep just to keep you temporarily
happy. He doesn’t manipulate you
with cheap sentiment.
That’s the great thing about high-
value guys. They spend more time
legitimately trying to make the
relationship work. Rather than
taking you a roller coaster of
positive and negative emotions, they
just focus on the positive. They
bring out the best in you. He’s a
considerate guy, an honest man, and
a romantic.
And you’re what makes his already
wonderful life even more exciting
and precious.
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