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JOURNALING STUDENT RESOURCE How journaling could make you happier and healthier Reflecting on your thoughts and feelings can help you to make sense of your personal story. Words: Sarah Wild hen life is difficult (and it certainly is right now), W having a private space in which to express our experiences and emotions could be lifesaver. Research shows that keeping a diary – or ‘journaling’ – can help us to work out what’s going on in our minds, making links between our actions, thoughts and feelings. As we notice habits and patterns of behaviour, it enhances our self-awareness and may improve both our mental and physical health, boosting the immune system. The technique has been used for thousands of years – by people as diverse as the Roman Emperor Marcus Aurelius, artist Frieda Kahlo (who drew in her journal as well as writing in it) and, of course 13 year-old Anne Frank, whose diary of forced confinement during the German occupation of Amsterdam may be psychologically helpful in the current lockdown. In fact, the Anne Frank Trust UK is calling on young people to ‘Make a Diary Project’; during the coronavirus crisis. Today, journaling continues to be used by everyone from writers to leading businesspeople and influencers of all ages. For example, actress Emma Watson keeps different journals for different aspects of her life. “I must have 10 different personal diaries,” she said back in 2018. “I keep a dream diary, I keep a yoga diary, I keep diaries on people that I’ve met and things that they’ve said to me, advice that they’ve given me. I keep an acting journal. I keep collage books.” “The difference between despair and hope is just a different way of telling stories from the same set of facts” Alain de Botton, philosopher Revealing how you feel It’s important to bear in mind that journaling isn’t so much designed to record what you think but you to reveal what you think. As author EM Forster put it: “How do I know what I think until I see what I say?” Often, we don’t know what we think about issues, but only how they made us react and feel: “Why was I so upset when an exam I’d been dreading was cancelled?” “Why did I feel so awkward on a Zoom call with friends I haven’t seen for a while?” “Why do I no longer feel motivated by the idea of going to university?” “What is stopping me from exercising and eating well?” Journaling helps us to investigate these feelings and to understand ourselves better. In recounting our thoughts and experiences, and reflecting upon these, we are telling our own story; through journaling, we can clarify these narratives and find meaning within them. To quote philosopher Alain de Botton: “The difference between despair and hope is just a different way of telling stories from the same set of facts.” How to write your journal There is no set format for writing a journal, but here are some guidelines that may help: 1 Journal 2 If 3 Although 4 Try 5 Where regularly so that it becomes a habit (for example, set aside 10 minutes, three times a week) and record events as soon as possible after they happen. you’re unsure how to structure your diary, you could start a gratitude journal as an antidote to negative emotions; for example, note ‘five things I am grateful for today’ or ‘five things that inspired me’. If you love lists and planners, try bullet journaling, or Julia Cameron’s ‘morning pages’ to enhance your creativity. If you express things visually, like Frieda Kahlo, you could draw in your journal as well as write. hand writing a journal is better than typing it (because it forces your brain to slow down and be more intentional about what you think and write), it’s ok to use an app if you prefer. You could even start a passwordprotected blog that you do not share with the world. not to be self-conscious about your writing. It’s not about making your entries sound good, or impressing a reader, but about exploring experiences and finding meaning within them. you have clear goals to meet, write these down and note your progress towards them: research shows that those who write down their goals accomplish significantly more than those who do not. It’s also a good place to jot down ideas to follow up. Finally, see your journal as a relaxing outlet, rather than a chore. If you create a ritual around it (perhaps complete with your duvet, a favourite hot drink and a playlist), it may become something you actually look forward to doing!