FUTURE TALENT November - January 2019/2020 | Page 79

PERSONAL TRAINING Lean Out: The Truth About Women, Power, and the Workplace P RECENT Marissa Orr, HarperCollins Leadership, 2019 L ike Sheryl Sandberg, Marissa Orr honed her thinking while working at tech giants, but her experience of being a single mother at work has led her to exhort women to “lean out” rather than “lean in”. For Orr, the gender gap is not about dysfunctional women who can’t (or won’t) dial up their assertiveness and behave more like men; rather, it’s a function of a dysfunctional and outdated system that prioritises male-dominant strengths. Lean Out charts Orr’s growing disenchantment with Lean In, arguing that women will continue to be disadvantaged at work unless underlying structures change and diversity programmes accept that not everyone has the same aspirations. Orr’s ‘leaning out’ also challenges the idea that female stereotypes are to be avoided: “Is there anything less feminist than implying that men are the ‘norm’… and that there’s something inherently less valuable about…women?” Lean Lean In: Women, Work, and the Will to Lead Out is candid and persuasive, looking again at why more women don’t make it to the top and arguing for gender-gap solutions that motivate women by listening to what they have to say and acknowledging and rewarding the traits and behaviours that make them successful. CLASSIC Sheryl Sandberg, W H Allen, 2013 I t’s hard to believe that Sheryl S a n d b e rg ’ s Le a n I n wa s published so recently. Since 2013, debates around women at work have exploded into the mainstream, giving even the most unreconstructed company leaders pause for thought. As a result, Sandberg’s Lean In thesis – that women need to show up and grab career opportunities – now seems out of step. Increasingly, laying the responsibility for resolving gender imbalance at work with women seems at odds with a focus on the barrier effects of wider organis ational structures and cultures; witness Marissa Orr’s counter argument in Lean Out. But this is to underplay the significance of a book that was groundbreaking at the time. Sandberg’s honesty and her unflinching call to arms – coupled with her profile – spawned the Lean In community and marked a step change in the way we frame the g e nd e r d i ve r s i t y d e bate . By encouraging women to play a part in improving things for their own sake, and for others, she set in train a movement that unequivocally set out the business benefits of gender diversity and made many women and men think, and act, differently. November – January 2019 // 79