Forward July 2020 | Page 6

AROUND THE SCHOOL About resilience The subject of countless books, much academic research and debate, human resilience is, in a nutshell, our ability to recover from difficulties. Perhaps more importantly it is our ability to recover and then adapt and change our behaviour, so that we can learn and grow from adverse experiences. We know that people who are resilient lead happier, more fulfilled lives, contribute to communities and support those around them. Without this key ingredient, it is difficult for people to recover from adversity and impossible for them to thrive. Fortunately, there is a good body of evidence that shows we can build and develop resilience, or learn resilience, and of course as someone involved with young people this is the area that interests me the most. My grandad grew up in the mill towns of the south west of Western Australia in the 1920s and 1930s. These were small communities where income was limited. He told stories of wrapping his feet in Weetbix bags on his way to school, then quickly unwrapping them before arrival so that attention was not drawn to the family’s lack of ability to afford shoes. Life was difficult and opportunities were very hard won. He passed away earlier this year, at the age of 94. He had an ordinary, but extraordinary life, and his most enduring legacy was his ability to adapt, to people and situations, to creatively problem solve and to create tools that suited his purpose when there was not one for the job. I remember him laughing regularly, often at his own quiet jokes, and in constant motion, always up early and on the move. He always had time, was never too busy to explain what he was doing or answer 101 questions from his grandchildren. He was the most resilient character I know. A quick scholarly search results in 2.6 million academic articles for resilience. My ability to summarise this into something meaningful in 300 words is, frankly, impossible. So, I return to my grandad’s example. To be resilient is to lead a contented and fulfilled life, with the ability to deal with the inevitable hardships that will come our way. Heartbreak, loss, financial hardship, illness, failure and death are a part of every life and it is essential that we can recover and thrive after these events. Resilience diminishes when we are belittled, when people around us are unkind, sexist, racist, or marginalise and make judgements about us. It also diminishes when we are not allowed to fail or reflect on our mistakes, when we are not asked to take responsibility for ourselves and our behaviour and when we are restricted and unable to follow our own path. Ms Jennyfer Leah Our resilience is increased when we are loved and cared for, when we are treated equally and fairly and supported by those around us. It is further increased when those around us have high expectations for us and support our dreams and aspirations. They must also let us know when we have not been the best version of ourselves and (without listening to our excuses) help us find a way to be better next time. “Fall down seven times, stand up eight” (Japanese proverb) Just like Grandad. Ms Jennyfer Leah Deputy Head of Senior School Family generosity through the ages There is a stunning stained-glass memorial window in the Chapel of St Mary and St George which was donated by Charles Herman Bogle in honour of his son Charles Stewart Bogle (Sc 37–38) killed in WWII. And today there is an exquisite harpsichord in the Music School, kindly gifted in March 2020 by Charles Herman’s grandson, Stewart Bogle (Sc 66-68) and his children Charles and Helena. The family decided that the seldom used harpsichord should be tuned and played regularly and would be ideal for teaching the keyboard. Stewart said, “We hope that the school finds it a great instrument to teach upon and for the performance of Baroque music. We hope foremost though, that having this instrument will add a new dimension of learning for keyboard students: in the construction of a harpsichord, the tonal possibilities available with it, it’s tuning, the manner of its playing when compared to a piano or organ, and achieving the right pitch for the performance of music written in the Baroque period.” The Director of Music, Mr Kieran Hurley, was thrilled with the gift. “The addition of the harpsichord will allow students to perform on an instrument synonymous with a particularly prodigious time in music history, being the Baroque Period. To play the music of Johann Sebastian Bach and Wolfgang Amadeus Mozart (among many others) on the type of instrument for which it was written, adds a whole new depth to the performance. I look forward to showcasing the instrument in a Chamber Concert as soon as we are able.” The School is extremely grateful for the gift of this beautiful instrument. Our heartfelt thanks go to Stewart, Charles, Rosemary and Helena for this generous gesture. The harpsichord will be treasured by our music teachers and students alike. 6