Forward July 2020 | Page 28

PREPARATORY SCHOOL finding independence! Our students’ superpower We have learnt quite a few things in 2020 and, as a result, we have seen some incredible developments we could not have anticipated. The ravages and the sadness wrought by this global pandemic have, and will continue to have, an enormous impact on our planet. We acknowledge the incredible pain and suffering of this pandemic. We have also seen some ‘green shoots’ as a result of the resilience we have shown as a country, a community, as a school and as individuals. Resilience is that ability to bounce back from adversity. Well, we have not only seen a ‘bounce back’ from our students, we have seen enormous growth in one specific area: independence. This independence is a core trait in growth, overcoming obstacles, self-confidence and the all-important aspect of growing into oneself. We cannot understate the importance and incredible present and future impacts of this growth in independence. The ripple effects (if we let it continue and do not regress back to the ‘old normal’) will be profound for our students. It may sound simplistic, but imagine the potential growth, short and long term, from: • Students carrying their own school bag • Unpacking their bag and organising their diary, lunch and folders • Walking into their class or building by themselves • Picking up their own school clothes, lunch box and other items • Communicating with their teacher about their morning, last night or any concerns • Saying goodbye with a hug and a kiss and walking away from their parents in the morning • Packing their own bag at the end of the day and remembering to pack everything they need These all may sound mundane, but they form a crucial developmental milestone for our students. Hundreds of our students now do these things daily. Most have never done them before. This resiliency to adapt and change to a ‘new normal’ has had this incredible impact on independence. Our students (and families) can only benefit from these new standards and independence. But it is hard. As parents, we know that each transition of our children growing in independence is also a transition of them growing away from us. It hurts. It’s hard. But, it’s so necessary for them to do this. As we Go Forward from this change we can look back at some positive points. Our students have found their ‘super power’ of independence and, in doing so, they have built the essential platform for future growth, resilience, change, adaptation and learning – real life. Well done to our students and families for embracing this opportunity. Mr Clark Wight Head of Preparatory School 28