Forward July 2020 | Page 13

FROM THE HEAD OF SENIOR SCHOOL • Encourage positive and reaffirming selftalk, encouraging our children to think positively first and have confidence in their ability and the wider picture. In the case of a possible exam failure, rather than focusing on the error, encourage them to focus on how well they performed or revised for other exams. • Think beyond the current situation and focus on the future, where the problem no longer exists. • Focus on how the future looks, setting targets or goals for improvement. • Ask for help, share the concerns and ask someone to help you find a way forward if you are stuck. An important tool our students can use are affirmations; simple present-tense statements of fact, about the future. Students must believe that through their attitude and effort they have the ability to impact future performance. Some examples of affirmations that students might find useful are: • I have the tools around me to get support for my individual subjects. • I was successful in some of my exams. I can apply the same processes to areas where I need to improve in the future • I have studied and revised, and I know my subject The important thing is to have our minds firmly fixed on the future, the future without the current challenge. Our mind moves us towards the most dominant picture. If our thoughts are consumed with negativity and doubt, we will not be able to move forward. The more affirmations we say, the clearer our picture of the future becomes and as a result our performance also improves. Resilience also has a much wider application in our lives. Every year, the world witnesses its share of disasters and 2020 has certainly highlighted this. In each instance, the aftermath has been almost unbearable to watch. We feel a lack of control and an inability to prevent these events from occurring. We need to take care of how our mind approaches coping with disaster. Rebounding takes a conscious effort to control our self-talk in order to remain positive. Looking beyond ourselves, by helping others, is a great strategy to improve our positive self-talk. Making the effort to visualise what our world will look like, once the current situation has passed, provides a path to follow. Reinforcing that vision with positive affirmations goes a long way towards avoiding the pitfalls of a downward spiral. We are all prone to moments of fear and anxiety, but it is important to remember that there are people around us who can help. We only have to ask. Letting others help us, or helping others, creates a sense of belonging and community. The knowledge that we can work together to solve problems is very powerful and is the foundation on which resilience is built. Mr Brad Evans Head of Senior School Senior School Sensory Garden Earlier this year the P & F Society approved funding for the development of a sensory garden for the Learning Enrichment team. Since then, the team has developed the garden and it is now being utilised by students and staff as a place for quiet reflection. The purpose of the sensory garden is to stimulate all five senses, with aromas, textures colours and shapes, through the use of plants and other materials. Sensory gardens have proven therapeutic value for students and can contribute positively to emotional and physical wellbeing. Along with specially selected plants, the sensory garden includes elements such as wind chimes, sensory paths and a water feature. Learning Enrichment students will use the three garden beds to plant herbs, vegetables and fruit trees to incorporate the garden into the curriculum using the Stephanie Alexander Kitchen Garden and the ASDAN Independent Living and Meal Preparation Units. The sensory garden is located in Robinson Court and is available for all students and staff as a place to relax, reflect, meditate, contemplate and talk. Mrs Ullisa Macdougall-Hull Head of Learning Enrichment 13