Forward July 2020 | Page 12

FROM THE HEAD OF SENIOR SCHOOL Resilience In light of many of the significant events the world has witnessed in 2020. I am sure our students have been confronted and challenged, not only in relation to current events, but also in relation to what they feel the future may hold. Now, more than ever, being resilient and able to quickly adapt is essential to our wellbeing. Research has established that for our young people to thrive and emerge from challenging experiences with a positive sense of themselves and the future, they need to be resilient. Children who are resilient are Children who are resilient are better able to face disappointment, learn from failure, cope with loss, and adapt to change. better able to face disappointment, learn from failure, cope with loss, and adapt to change. We recognise resilience in children when we observe their determination, grit, and perseverance to tackle problems and cope with the emotional challenges of school and life. No matter how hard we may try, life is not perfect. Every day is not sunny, our relationships with others are not always smooth, and there are days where life is just downright challenging. However, it is how we react to these less-than-perfect situations that provide opportunities for personal growth and development. Our students spend a significant portion of their time at school, which provides a valuable context through which to examine resilience, and actions we can take to develop this trait further in our students. A relevant example for some of our students may be their first day back at school after examinations. They may receive their first examination result and experience disappointment at the result due to misinterpreting a question or misunderstanding an instruction. This may lead to anxiety and negative thinking, spiralling downward until the student is extremely anxious and stressed. So, how can we help our students to avoid this pattern? 12