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ATHL E TICS Eddie Perez-Pelaez ’19 Spencer LaFata ’17 “Self-reflection and personal growth are never easy, but Fordham Prep created all the opportunities, through retreats and classes, for me to develop and recognize the importance of my spirituality.” “The Prep nurtures social justice for all people and strives to influence its students to partake in acts of disinterested kindness for the benefit of humanity.” Fordham Prep taught me a lot in my years prior to college. In many ways, my years at Fordham Prep set the foundation for my future academic and athletic endeavors. The combination of Fordham Prep’s athletic and academic opportunities provided me with four years to practice time-management and communication skills before the degree of difficulty in both fields increased. I left that school with the knowledge of how to schedule my time appropriately and the difference between hard work and smart work. One of the greatest skills I learned from my time at Fordham Prep was the importance of communication. Creating connections and being able to express your thoughts in a compelling manner is crucial to your success in college. Communication skills are especially important when asking 20 RAMVIEW for help. Because I was taught not to be afraid to ask for help in my classes or in the pool during my years at Fordham Prep, I have been able to adjust and navigate any difficulties I have experienced thus far during my collegiate career. Being a member of such a close-knit high school swim and dive team, I began to understand what it meant to be a part of and compete for a group of individuals with a unified goal. I later learned my freshman year of college that being a part of a team takes a lot self-reflection, personal development, and mindfulness. Self-reflection and personal growth are never easy, but Fordham Prep created all the opportunities, through retreats and classes, for me to develop and recognize the importance of my spirituality. Fordham Prep is an enormous part of where I am today in all of the aforementioned aspects. Socially, it foments acceptance and, akin to the teachings of the Jesuits that founded it, promotes charity and altruism amongst all of its members (that is students and teachers alike), all of which are extremely kind and caring people who will be your friends for life. Similarly, it offers a spiritually enhancing experience. Regardless of your religious beliefs, the Prep nurtures social justice for all people and strives to influence its students to partake in acts of disinterested kindness for the benefit of humanity. I can also tell you as a D1 soccer player that the Prep’s athletic programs are some of its strongest points and have given me some of my most memorable moments in my time at Fordham Prep along with a band of brothers with whom you share said memories. Academically, I will admit, Fordham Prep has its flaws. While it offers an excellent education, I believe that a few tweaks here and there in its structure are the only thing keeping it from being the best school it can be. Notwithstanding, this takes nothing away from the quality of the education you will receive at Fordham Prep with world class teachers who are ready, willing, and able to help and guide you at every turn. SPRING 2020 21