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Spotlight No Greater Love: Bob Murray ’64 In the fall of 1960, a quiet, unassuming and genial youngster from Our Lady of Mercy Grammar School in the Bronx walked up Old Elm Road to the front steps of an ivy-covered Hughes Hall, then the home of Fordham Prep. He would be entering the freshman class. Older brother, Jim, was already an accomplished Prep upperclass- man. Young Bobby Murray would quietly make his own mark at the Prep—as a playmaking guard on the freshman basketball team, as a class officer, and by serving as a four-year member of the Sodality and Sanctu- ary Society. Admired and liked by classmates, Bob never called attention to himself. He was someone who kept his own counsel and who also knew how to enjoy rambunctious acting out —primarily as an observer. After graduation, he remained on Rose Hill. At Fordham College he prepared himself meticulously for the next phase of his education: to earn an MBA at Harvard Business School. During the decade 1965-75, America’s involvement in the war in Vietnam and the question of military service vs. personal preferences weighed heavily on the thoughts and plans of every young American male. Bob Murray faced this dilemma squarely. While at Harvard he made a consequential decision to enlist in the Army. With characteristic commitment, he excelled in both Ranger and Airborne training. His lifelong friend, Art Centonze, recalls a conversation they had prior to Bob’s departure for Vietnam (November 6, 1969): “We discussed the pros and cons of the country's involvement in Vietnam, as many young people did at the time. Bob said two things that still stick in my mind after all this time. One was that he wanted to be as prepared as possible. The other was that he thought he could make a difference.” While serving in Vietnam with the noted Americal (23rd) Infantry Division, Bob was awarded two Bronze Stars for heroism during two separate combat actions (May 1970.) His leadership resulted in a promotion to Staff Sergeant. On June 7, 1970, he and his squad were on patrol near the village of Hiep Duc (south central coastal region). They had been tasked with locating and eliminating an enemy mortar position which had been threatening friendly forces. When the squad’s point man inadvertently tripped a booby-trapped grenade, Sergeant Murray threw himself onto the grenade to protect the men he was leading. He 22 | RA MVIE W absorbed the full impact of the explosion and was killed. He was only twenty-three years old. For his extraordinary valor and self-sacrifice, he was posthumously awarded our country’s highest military recognition —the Medal of Honor. “We Need To Do Something Special” This spring a group from the Class of 1964 sought to establish The Robert C. Murray Award in his memory. In order to get the award well started, twenty-one members of the class—Art Centonze, Mike Cesa, Jerry Crowley, Jim DiMarzo, Rich DiMarzo, Joe Dirr, Mike Formoso, Ed A. Hagan, Brian Heller, Lee Higdon, John Malone, Bob Maloney, Pat McInerney, Tom Monahan, Bob O’Donnell, Jerry O’Gorman, Andy Paterno, Bill Perry, Chuck Slivinski, Ralph Stubbs and Bob Zachariesiewicz—presented a detailed proposal to Prep President, Father Christopher Devron, SJ. Impressed by the passion of Murray’s supporters to create a lasting legacy for their classmate, Father Devron approved their submission. The new award will be presented to a graduating senior who best exemplifies and reflects Murray’s characteristics—devotion to country, courage, love for neighbor, and sacrifice.