do girls often
go for the “bad guy”?
Women love a challenge. They also love a man with a great amount of confidence. They value strength and the thought that their man will protect them in a dangerous situation. While everyone is different, these are some of things that women are drawn towards. Unfortunately, many guys who exhibit these characteristics can take them to the extreme and be self-centered, demanding and even abusive.
If you’re one of the nice guys, this does NOT mean you should become mean or careless. But you may increase your attractiveness to some women by increasing the confidence you have in yourself. Move confidently toward the things you are interested in, and excel at those things. Remember, the more confident you become, the more attractive you are.
Why
However, for some women their attraction to abusive men stems from growing up in a dysfunctional home. It’s all they know and they have been beaten down so much they feel they only deserve an abusive guy. It’s sad because they don’t know they deserve so much more.