Keep it simple. Don’t make a big deal about it…you’ll only make her feel uncomfortable.
Sometimes the best way is to be as honest as possible. You can tell her you’re flattered and you appreciate her kindness toward you. And then just say you’re not as attracted to her as you’d like to be toward someone you’d like to date.
If you want to be friends with her and nothing more intimate, tell her. But don’t tell her you want to be friends with her if you really don’t. Don’t lead her on.
Most guys will just brush the girl off, and ignore her, neglecting any kind of future contact with her. This is a pretty sad treatment of women. So here’s a few pointers for how to respectfully let a girl know you are not interested:
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How do you let a girl down without hurting her feelings too much?