Why
don't guys seem to think of doing the little things that make a girl feel happy and loved?
Many guys do not understand how much simple little gestures of kindness mean to a girl. Honestly, it is something many guys have to learn and isn’t necessarily natural for them. So be careful not to take it too personally and overreact.
Most guys have never been instructed on how to make a girl happy. Usually a guy learns these things from his father. The problem is many fathers are either absent, or never learned themselves.
Be understanding if you are the one who needs to teach your boyfriend how to show simple gestures of love. Sure, it’d be great if he came up with these things on his own, but it’s better to communicate them to him rather than getting bitter and hoping he will read your mind. You may have to gently tell him some little things that would bring you joy, such as a simple goodnight text right before you go to