Another thing to consider - If you have had sexual contact, would this guy stay committed to you if you went for a period of time without sex? (The minute you add sex into a relationship, you make it very difficult to know how the other person actually feels about you and not just the sex.)
Quite honestly, if he really does love you, you most likely wouldn’t have any question about it. You would know.
Here are some questions worth asking yourself to determine if you are in a loving relationship or a selfish one:
Do you feel like your emotions are being played with?
Does he say one thing and do another?
Does he say he loves you, and then doesn’t act like it?
Does he want to spend meaningful time with you?
Does he treat you with respect?
Does he speak well of you to other people?
Does he give you freedom or try to control you?
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Ariel is in a sexual relationship with a guy. He says he's not ready for a relationship but expects Ariel to not go anywhere or see anyone else. Dawson gives Ariel his honest and raw advice about how he sees her "relationship".