You might wish your boyfriend could be a “mind reader,” but he won’t know how you feel unless you communicate with him. If you have tried to communicate and he still doesn’t understand, be patient. Many guys are not great at emotional communication.
Also, guys tend to be “fixers” and instead of just listening he may start talking about how to fix your feelings or the situation. If you just want to be heard, then gently tell him you just need him to listen to how you are feeling.
Why
is it so hard for your
boyfriend to understand how
you are feeling?