Ever had it where a guy flirts with you one minute and completely ignores you the next?
This could be for a couple of reasons. First, you need to figure out if you are dealing with a professional flirt. Some guys send mixed signals because they like to, and they’re good at it. For them, it is a power and ego trip. They’ll play the game with just about anybody because they’re hooked on the game. You need to avoid flirt addicts at all costs.
However, sometimes what seems like a mind-game is simply a lack of clear communication. You can imagine all kinds of crazy things are going on in a guys head, when in fact, he may simply be distracted by something else. The only way you can truly clear up the confusion is to talk about it.
You also need to be careful to not read too much into the signals you pick up from guys. Just because he smiles at you doesn’t mean he wants to go out with you. Sometimes you can convince yourself a particular guy really likes you, when in fact, he’s just being friendly.
Finally – watch the signals that you are sending. Guys find girls just as confusing as you find guys. Be yourself, but be careful about being overly sexy or a tease.