No longer can the answer be “ we don ’ t talk about these sort things out here ” be the reason to ignore a problem which is growing throughout Rural and Regional Australia and now in Businesses .
Beyond Blue was formed to help these problems and having come through this problem I chose not to call them and after talking to a few people their feelings have been the same .
“ We aren ’ t mentally unstable , I just need a better way of thinking ” this was my attitude as well . If I could just a find something that could help me without having to speak to anyone or telling anyone about my “ problem ”. I just needed a better way to make me happy without anyone knowing .
How can we help each other ?
It all comes down to changing thoughts and creating new beliefs . Some people will seek the different Bibles , some people will join different groups and some people want to discover for themselves . This was me . I wanted to unlock my thoughts , my way , from a distance .
What I didn ’ t realize was that I needed to move away from the people I was surrounded by and change everything about my day , what I did and what I believed .
In one way I had to reprogram my thoughts to find the solutions and the uncomfortable parts of my life . I had to learn to identify the traits and situations before I could control the outcomes .
I believe most people are on a journey of some kind . Some people are affected by lack of results or lack of vision . Many people start down a path to realize that they just don ’ t want to be on that path again . They then feel committed and overcome by their state of affairs and trudge the path for years and accept that this is the straw they drew .