No longer can the answer be“ we don’ t talk about these sort things out here” be the reason to ignore a problem which is growing throughout Rural and Regional Australia and now in Businesses.
Beyond Blue was formed to help these problems and having come through this problem I chose not to call them and after talking to a few people their feelings have been the same.
“ We aren’ t mentally unstable, I just need a better way of thinking” this was my attitude as well. If I could just a find something that could help me without having to speak to anyone or telling anyone about my“ problem”. I just needed a better way to make me happy without anyone knowing.
How can we help each other?
It all comes down to changing thoughts and creating new beliefs. Some people will seek the different Bibles, some people will join different groups and some people want to discover for themselves. This was me. I wanted to unlock my thoughts, my way, from a distance.
What I didn’ t realize was that I needed to move away from the people I was surrounded by and change everything about my day, what I did and what I believed.
In one way I had to reprogram my thoughts to find the solutions and the uncomfortable parts of my life. I had to learn to identify the traits and situations before I could control the outcomes.
I believe most people are on a journey of some kind. Some people are affected by lack of results or lack of vision. Many people start down a path to realize that they just don’ t want to be on that path again. They then feel committed and overcome by their state of affairs and trudge the path for years and accept that this is the straw they drew.