• I had a good business
• I had a wife and kids
• I had everything and now I have nothing but guilt so why should I give a damn ?
• My life is nothing .
The great thing about his outburst was , I had areas to work on and a had a tiny bit of knowledge of his situation . I said this to him this questions .
1 . What do you do when you have a flat tyre on a car ? Change it ! 2 . What do you do when you drop a glass on the floor ? Clear away the pieces 3 . What do you do when you can ’ t get a result ? Try another idea 4 . What do you do when you arrive at your destination ? Create another 5 . What happens when you stop watering the lawn ? Some of it dies
You just need to turn the water on again . Today the tap is turned on and no water is running through it .
• If you hit the tap and loosen the washer the water will start to run .
• If you change the washer and clean it out you , flush out an answer .
He was silent . In fact I thought he may have hung up and I was talking to myself , but after a period he asked ,
Will it be that easy ? My answer was , if you let it be !
The interesting thing about challenges is we let them consume us . Our whole concentration is all about poor me . Like the tyre , we have to change it to move forward . Likewise with our thinking .