FLQ LIFESTYLE
#8 “WHAT SHE DOESN’T KNOW
CAN’T HURT HER.”• Sometimes the circumstances just
fall into place so well that he can cheat without worrying about getting caught. For
example, he’s alone on a business trip and he decides to sleep with a girl he met.
Afterwards, they sever their ties and pretend that the whole thing didn’t happen.
This scenario can be so tempting for some guys that they just go ahead and do it. The
problem with this is just because she doesn’t know, doesn’t mean it didn’t happen. It
will hang on his conscience for the rest of his life. But for some guys, the extra
weight on their conscience is completely negligible.
#9 HE WANTS TO LEAVE HER, BUT
HE NEEDS A REPLACEMENT. For whatever
reason, this numbskull of a man may choose to leave a woman who’s already a
catch. But instead of being a man and just saying what he feels outright, he feels like
he needs a safety net to catch him when he jumps out of his relationship. That safety
net can come in the form of another woman who’s willing to be his paramour until
he gets the guts to leave his current girlfriend.
The problem with this flawed logic is that instead of coming clean and just ending
things on good terms, he chooses to ruin it by involving a third party. His fear of not
finding a replacement soon enough pushes him to make his two relationships
overlap, thus hurting at least one of the two women he’s dating.
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He’s just a complete idiot. There are lucky men who attract wonderful women
despite not being the usual kind of guy that these women would date. And what
does he do with his incredible stroke of luck? He squanders it by cheating on her.
Sometimes, this behavior is simply inexplicable. Maybe it’s just a habit. Maybe he’s
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