FLQ LIFESTYLE
so awesome. This is not the woman’s fault at all! It’s the guy’s inability to handle this
threat • that causes him to cheat.
So what does he do? He finds another woman who’s not as great as his girlfriend
and uses this other woman to feel like he still has the one up on another person. This
gives him a bit of a self-esteem boost because whenever he’s with the other woman,
he doesn’t feel the need to try and equal her success.
#2 HE THINKS SHE’S DOING IT, TOO. Again, this
may stem from insecurity and some form of paranoia. The guy cheats on his partner
because he can’t seem to believe that someone who seems so perfect would just settle
for him. He thinks that his partner must be cheating, and in turn, he does the same to
her.
He may think that his relationship is too good to be true. So in his poorly conceived
defense, he convinces himself that his partner can’t possibly be faithful to a guy such
as him. Therefore, he preemptively cheats on her before she has the chance to do it to
him.
#3 HE FEELS IGNORED.
The thing about a well-rounded woman is that she may have other activities that
take up the time that the guy thinks he deserves. She may be busy with her career,
with taking extra classes, with getting fit, and a bunch of other things that can
actually make their relationship thrive.
So while his woman is out there improving herself, the guy is just sitting around and
selfishly wallowing on the fact that he’s being neglected. When he’s done wallowing,
instead of coming up with productive activities to do while his woman is busy, he
goes out and finds another woman who can give him the attention he feels entitled
to.
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